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  SPAWN

  by White Dove in

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  2. family

  what would you do if your 19 year old son announced to everyone on his fb list that he was engaged to be married, and this is the first you ever heard of it?.

  how about if that same spawn told his fiance, who you've never met or talked to, that his whole family is dead and that you are not his real mother (or father)?

  also, what if she told you through pms on fb one by one what he was claiming, and you explained each one in detail, and she didn't believe you?.

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  troubled mind

  Okay I will try , White Dove I have three sons and I would be devastated if any one of them treated me this way .

  However in your case it makes no sense to us readers that your son just out of the blue has chosen to be so hateful . There must be some personal issues you two have gone through to cause such actions on his part . I am sorry ...

  My advice would be to back off give this situation space and time . Do not make a bad case worse . He is 19 .....is he really financially able to marry and provide for a wife ? If not maybe he knows you will oppose his decision so in his immature way is cutting off communication to get his own way ??

  Only you know the whole story .

  I am sorry this is happening and causing you pain . Be the adult ....even though you are hurt ....remain calm cool and collect and let him reap the consequences of his actions .

  I hope he will mature come to his senses and be happy he had a loving mom that didn't stoop to his level.
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  No chance of going back now!!

  by sinis in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  well, it was hard but after a few years my sig other is pretty much out.

  we celebrate the holidays, and they are very enjoyable.

  i was shocked, though, that last night she pulled out a lottery scratch card!!

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  troubled mind

  I agree buying a lottery ticket is just one of those FU moments I get a little kick out of too. Finally after almost six yrs of being out , my husband is starting to participate in little guilty pleasures .....he buys lottery tickets now, brings treats to work on his birthday and holidays ,and is getting more comfortable with me decorating for the holidays .Baby steps .......maybe one day he will even vote
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  So which makes more sense? Sex or no sex in the "new system"?

  by stillstuckcruz in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  obviously jah wouldn't allow for millions of pregnancies in the new system for fear of the same problem today of overpopulation.

  so would he throw in sex but not allow for the women to become pregnant?

  or would there be just no sex at all?

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  troubled mind

  I no longer worry about things that are never going to happen ........all I know for sure is sex is still happening
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  Would you say anything to someone that is accepting JW literature ?

  by troubled mind in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  there is a woman at the place i work that has studied off and on for several yrs with one of the jw employees .

  today i was in her office and i noticed in her bookcase a collection of jw literature .

  she has the insight books , a revelation book and some other brochures .

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  troubled mind

  It seems to me this woman is not interested in joining ,just curious about what JWs do believe . Otherwise she would have already been going to meetings . She has studied and taken magazines for over seven yrs !

  I would like to just ask her opinion for example Does she think the Witnesses are the only true religion ? She has read enough literature she has to know that is what THEY think .

  I can imagine she has had it all sugar coated to her about how wonderful the witnesses are ,but I wonder if she is aware they have problems just like every other religion .

  She is a facebook friend of mine . Maybe what would be better is to start a blog on there sharing my forty yrs experience growing up as a Jehovah's Witness . That way she can at least see a different perspective .
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  Note to Self

  by mrsjones5 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  avoid abortion threads.

  they're only for folks to piss on each other.

  now i'm off to watch "modern family".

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  snoozy i am very sad .....i just saw next weeks TV schedule and there is a basketball game on instead of our shows .....
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  Would you say anything to someone that is accepting JW literature ?

  by troubled mind in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  there is a woman at the place i work that has studied off and on for several yrs with one of the jw employees .

  today i was in her office and i noticed in her bookcase a collection of jw literature .

  she has the insight books , a revelation book and some other brochures .

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  troubled mind

  There is a woman at the place I work that has studied off and on for several yrs with one of the JW employees . Today I was in her office and I noticed in her bookcase a collection of JW literature . She has the Insight books , a Revelation Book and some other brochures . I know she has taken the magazines for a few yrs too. I think she knows about my past . The people in this workplace gossip like crazy so nothing is a secret . My JW ex-sister in law is the one that witnesses to her .

  So today I was just wondering how to go about opening up a discussion about the literature she is reading . As far as I know she has never gone to the Kingdom Hall .

  I would like to at least ask what she thinks about what she has read so far ....

  Would you ever warn someone you know about the true nature of being a Witness or do you just mind your own business and let them figure it out themselves ?
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  Note to Self

  by mrsjones5 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  avoid abortion threads.

  they're only for folks to piss on each other.

  now i'm off to watch "modern family".

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  troubled mind

  Hey ,hey,hey ....lets get this thread back on topic !

  MODERN FAMILY !

  Love it ,loveit,love it .....

  Wednesday night is my TV veg out night I love all the shows on ABC that night :In the Middle , Better with You ,Modern Family, Cougar town ,and Off the Map. I can not remember a time when I liked so many shows at one time .

  The humor and chemistry on Modern Family is great and makes me laugh so much . Cougar Town started off slow ,but now I am really liking it too. Sarcastic humor is a tradition in my family so these shows make me feel at home .
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  On being reasonable

  by Lion Cask in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  recap.

  non-jw man with jw wife.

  she joined after we were married, against my wishes.

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  troubled mind

  You are not being unreasonable . Why should you always be the one that has to compromise for their benefit ? If it was the other way around would they allow or even ask you to say a blessing over a dinner ? Do they accomandate any of your personal beliefs ?

  After thirty years it is YOUR turn my friend . You would think after all that time they would know you well enough to see something has caused you to see them in different light (the df'd relatives treatment ) But ,no they are always in the right .......

  Be the voice of reason !
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  Hello. I have made myself a footnote.

  by NewChapter in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  first time poster.

  i guess this makes me the scary a word.

  arent apostates jealous?

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  troubled mind

  Welcome ! Wonderful first post .
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  Convention

  by PYRAMIDSCHEME in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i am off to convention tomorrow.

  for the first time in my life i don't want to go...but i have to, this sucks..

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  troubled mind

  Hahahaha gotta love it ....your busted mister !

  Luna is your husband scrambling to check what other 'cats out of the bag' he may have posted here ?